Q. Dear Christiann,
I’m a Christian and do not believe in pre-marital sex.  Is it possible for me to meet singles like me in Paris?

Joan R., Richmond, California

A. Dear Joan,
While I am certain that you will find other single Christians in a city like Paris - I am, however, uncertain where you can meet many others who share your ideas concerning pre-marital sex. France is a country that is quite open with regards to this issue.

But, having said this, there may very well be lots of people in Paris who share your values. I cannot give you any specifics at this time.  If your primary interest is simply meeting other Christian singles for outings and casual companionships, you may wish to check the events calendar at the American Church in Paris since I am unfamiliar with any particular programs. The church could be a valuable tool for networking.
The American Church
65, Quai d’Orsay
75007 Paris, France
Tel: +33(0)1-40-62-05-00
Information Center: +33(0)1-45-56-09-50

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Q. Dear Christiann,
In reference to the young lady whose Frenchman has a roving eye…Despite the cultural differences, I feel that a man who finds it necessary to comment on another woman’s physical attributes in the presence of his date or lover is a suspicious character. I have had experiences with Frenchmen, and not one has every treated me in such a disrespectful manner. The French people I know are far too discreet for this sort of behavior. Sisters should not settle for abuse in foreign countries simply because they are defending their own honor.

Sincerely,
Delorys W-T, Nice, France

A. Dear Delorys,
While I agree with you, my point is that we should not expect the French to behave like Americans. Looking at others, commenting on their attractiveness, or openly flirting with men or women is not a taboo in French culture. Even if you are committed to someone else.

Americans have more problems when going to foreign countries and insisting on everyone behaving as we do without understanding, or accepting, the differences. Women traveling abroad should not accept objectionable behavior under any circumstances. Although you may have had a better experience than some, others may not have had your good fortune and may need a bit of advice.